What is Shuttle Mediation?

 For many couples who decide to mediate, there is often a strong desire to be in the same room with their partner during mediation sessions. However, in some cases it may be unhelpful or even unsafe to have the couple meet face to face. This can be for a range of reasons such as a very pronounced power imbalance or a history of abusive behaviour. In these situations, the option of shuttle mediation can be a useful alternative to help couples work towards a mutually acceptable agreement.

So, what is shuttle mediation? In a shuttle mediation, the mediator meets with each party individually, either in person or over telephone or video. The mediator then ‘shuttles’ between the parties during the session – either by travelling back and forth in the same location or, for online shuttle mediations, moving between different virtual rooms. The mediator then uses the information communicated to them by each individual to work through their issues with the opposing party.

This type of mediation can be very effective and is a very common form of dispute resolution in family law. It can also save time, money and a lot of heartache as it can be less acrimonious and quicker than litigation. Ultimately, it is an effective method of dispute resolution for a variety of family matters including property disputes and parenting issues.

However, there are some limitations to shuttle mediation and it is important that both parties consider this option carefully. For example, it is a good idea for the mediator to discuss any safety concerns prior to beginning the mediation process. They should also ensure that they are aware of and can respond to any red flags, such as a high level of emotionality and/or inappropriate behaviour, that might emerge during the mediation.

Additionally, it is important to consider the impact of a joint meeting for both parties. It can be incredibly powerful for both parties to hear from each other about their needs and how the dispute has impacted on them. This can be a transformational experience and can shift people from positions of rigidity to more productive discussion. However, this is not always possible or appropriate for some families, particularly where there has been a history of abuse or where one or both members are extremely emotionally triggered by each other.

At Family Circle Mediation we offer virtual shuttle mediation for those situations where face to face meetings might be unhelpful or unsafe. It is very similar to traditional mediation but the mediator can only see each person by going back and forth between virtual 'rooms'. This allows both parties to feel safe, not be triggered by the other's presence and can have their attorney present with them for added security and support.